I dislike hypocrites. I can hide my feelings but asking me to pretend to like someone whom I dislike? That’s hard. I won’t be outright bitchy about it, like make nasty comments to the person’s face but I won’t pretend to like him/her either. So it goes without saying that I especially hate it when someone goes “Oh I hate so and so” and the next thing you know, the person is chummy with the other person. Like wtf, be true to yourself.

Yet when I try not to be a hypocrite and say what I actually mean, I feel like I’m being TOO honest and I end up feeling like a total bitch. Should I apologise for saying what I mean? Should I should I? 

The part of me that dislike hypocrites say I shouldn’t apologise for saying what I mean. (I’m sure M would agree w this, he is one of the most honest guy I know)

But yet I feel a tinge of guilt because I hate hurting people. And sometimes by saying what you mean, yes, you’re being true to yourself but you’re not thinking and considering other people’s feelings.

I guess this is when a white lie should come in. Fool yourself & fool others and no one gets hurt.  

@6 months ago